Others.... ????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sometimes i wish that i wouldn't care so much
..... for what Others would think
..... for what Others wud say about something i did
..... for what Others would see wrong in something i feel is completly harmless! 
Sometimes i wish i would do what I wanna do and be happy ..
 .... and not do whts expected frm me.. by Others and make my heart wear a fake smile!!
Sometimes ..... i wish .. Others wouldn't be so much more important to me ..than me!

Love,Sex & Yoga

As the 3 most popular and trendiest keywords became headlines, one cant help but wonder how apt the song of savage garden is for the moment, as they sing...

 "..... Animals and children tell the truth, they never lie

 Which one is more human
 There's a thought, now you decide............."

For those of u who didn't browse the headlines, the story is about "a cold-blooded crime that’s sending shivers across the city: a yoga instructor kills his foreign lover and freezes her body, tries to dismember and dispose of it" -Times News Network.

In todays world where we are becoming smarter and faster in all walks of life, where life is about giving yourself more time,when fashion and diet trends are returning to the earlier century styles! ....wonder whether our emotional intelligence is also returning to the cannibalistic ways of our hunter ancestors!!!

Friends or Foes???

Some days u cant help remind urself, how much better it was when we were kids!!

Friends were friends and foes were foes, there was always a bold line drawn between the two with thick black ink.... na......thick black crayons!!! :) Feelings were always clear and intentions never misunderstood!

And now we have grown up, and we have to wear a smile, while in our minds we might be screaming our heads off, with whatever bits of bad words we know! We need to put our heads to concentrate on multicoloured computer monitors, when we actually want to go out and party!! We have to be friends to our foes, which almost automatically makes our friends behave to us as if we their foes !

Every look, every word, every intention is misunderstood in every possible way! So much to the point that great people started proclaiming that 'the secret of failure, is trying to impress Everybody!'

Indeed, if we intent to clear every misunderstanding 'everyone' had got about us... then we would not have time for 'anything' else at all!!!! But does that mean that we live life our way and never care about others??? Answer would be a BIG NO !!!

Guess everything that we indulge in, needs to be within limits.. may it be friend or foe, Boss or childhood buddy.. .it applies to all!

Relationships............

Today morning was listening to my Ipod, and a very familiar song was going on, the next song was something I hadn’t heard before, and it took some time for me to gain interest in listening to it.

A thought came to mind then…. When it was the songs I knew already, it was easy to set my mind to its tune ‘cos the mind knows what to expect. But when it’s a new song i took a bit more time to adjust to the tune or actually start listening to it….

I feel that most of the times this is what we do in our relationships too. We all have some assumptions, usually formed with the help of what we see through media and what we read through books.

We assume that a particular relationship is supposed to be in a particular way. And when we personally get into such a relationship we start expecting the same as what we saw in the movie or read in a book. This will hide the true individuality of the persons involved and will lead to disappointment.

I should learn to keep my mind open. Open to new things, open to trying out new things, open to getting to know a new person. I should never forget that Everything and Every person is different from each other. No one is ‘like’ no one!