Arranged Vs Love? .... its Complicated!
SALE SALE SALE ... everywhere a SALE... that's how it is now when u tread outside nowadays. Every other store has an ON SALE board hung bright and bold in front of their entrances,and knowingly or unknowingly we get pulled in.
So last weekend i was on this shopping spree, desperate to checkout the sale at my favorite store, i made time from my usual schedules to head out and indulge. Since the day i had planned for this, my mind had been on this all alert mode, where i pick up colors and patterns from everything i see, from tv serials to magazine pages, to distant memories of beautiful dresses worn in my favorite movies. Every now and then, in between the routines my mind would return with a new color and pattern to put in my bookmarks list, so that i can refer to them when at the store.
All set for the endeavor i headed out to the store. The innumerable colors that the store held out to me were more than manageable. Never had i felt so overwhelmed with the need to pick my favorites! So there i was surrounded by all sort of colors and patterns one could imagine, and yet even after an hour i couldn't set eyes on even one garment that would satisfy my style definitions!
True to the moment, i was greatly disappointed at this unexpected turn of things. Even with all that it could offer me.. it was just not enough!
Life sometimes is like this... the moment would ask for it, the nature would strive to offer it , but all of it wouldn't be enough to make it happen! It wouldn't matter whether u actually prepared/planned for the moment or it happened spontaneously, the only thing that matters is for you to feel right.
Strength of a relationship is based upon the quality and not upon the length of time u knew each other. Sometimes even spending a lifetime with someone wouldn't be enough to understand them, and some other times the sincerity and loyalty of the other person would strike you in just few seconds spent together !
Like they say 'everything has got its place and time'... even love and marriage has its predestined place and time... sometimes it just feels right and u just need to trust your instincts. Love ya arranged .. its the commitment towards it that matters... nothing more..nothing less!
(www.facebook.com/LoveYaArrange)
PS: for the contest Love Marriage ya Arranged Marriage! on indiblogger.in
So last weekend i was on this shopping spree, desperate to checkout the sale at my favorite store, i made time from my usual schedules to head out and indulge. Since the day i had planned for this, my mind had been on this all alert mode, where i pick up colors and patterns from everything i see, from tv serials to magazine pages, to distant memories of beautiful dresses worn in my favorite movies. Every now and then, in between the routines my mind would return with a new color and pattern to put in my bookmarks list, so that i can refer to them when at the store.
All set for the endeavor i headed out to the store. The innumerable colors that the store held out to me were more than manageable. Never had i felt so overwhelmed with the need to pick my favorites! So there i was surrounded by all sort of colors and patterns one could imagine, and yet even after an hour i couldn't set eyes on even one garment that would satisfy my style definitions!
True to the moment, i was greatly disappointed at this unexpected turn of things. Even with all that it could offer me.. it was just not enough!
Life sometimes is like this... the moment would ask for it, the nature would strive to offer it , but all of it wouldn't be enough to make it happen! It wouldn't matter whether u actually prepared/planned for the moment or it happened spontaneously, the only thing that matters is for you to feel right.
Strength of a relationship is based upon the quality and not upon the length of time u knew each other. Sometimes even spending a lifetime with someone wouldn't be enough to understand them, and some other times the sincerity and loyalty of the other person would strike you in just few seconds spent together !Like they say 'everything has got its place and time'... even love and marriage has its predestined place and time... sometimes it just feels right and u just need to trust your instincts. Love ya arranged .. its the commitment towards it that matters... nothing more..nothing less!
(www.facebook.com/LoveYaArrange)
PS: for the contest Love Marriage ya Arranged Marriage! on indiblogger.in
So true!!! Its not how a marriage happens, but our commitment towards the relationship that matters.
ReplyDelete:) thanks for your time anupama...
Deletecomplications are what we create, nothing is complicated and everything is. Depends how we deal with things.
ReplyDeleteLove or arranged, it is a big question. But as you rightly said it doesnt matter what way you get married, success depends on what you make of the relationship
Nice post
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hi SJ, thanks for your insight.... appreciate ur time ...
Deletekeep blogging :)
NICE POST :) All the best for contest :) here have a lkook at this one too :)
ReplyDeletehttp://saurabhchawla2345.blogspot.in/2012/08/its-all-written-up-there.html
thanks saurabh,
Deleteyou write well.. .keep blogging
You said it right, commitment is the word without that marriage is nothing..:)
ReplyDeleteMy take on this topic is also based on commitment, do let me know your point of view about my take on this topic. All the best for the contest...:)
http://pkperception.blogspot.in/2012/08/whether-love-or-arranged-it-doesnt.html
thanks prashanth for your time.
Deletekeep blogging
Short... should have been longer with more discussion. Why is it that almost every blogger is reaching the same conclusions... commitment... is there nothing else in a relationship that will nourish and nurture it? Think harder.
ReplyDeleteArvind Passey
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