What do women want??
When it comes to choices of life partners each of us have a different set of specifications.. Or so it seems. One wants the tall handsome hunk while another look for a humorous heart... When one gives importance to the feeling of being secure with a good bank balance, another prioritize being able to build a life together.
Every eye, every heart is unique with their unique choices, isn't it??
Yes?? Or maybe no???
The choices we make might be based on different factors. Love, life, romance, money, companionship... On goes the list. But at the end of the day what do women want?? What is it that makes them so complicated that no one seems to understand the age old question?!
So here's what it takes.....
Every women, fair or dark, tall or short, urban or rural , young or old.... Each and every women needs 'a Man'.
'The Man' who sees the lady in her. Not the wife, not the gf, not the mum of his kids, but the beautiful, elegant, yet childishly shy romantic in her.
'The Man' who adores her not for the things she does for him, but for the way she is to the world.
'The Man' who sees her as a companion, the one he can talk his mind to. The one he is not scared to hear the truth from.
'The Man' who lets her respect him. Never letting her down. Never disrespecting her choices.
Around 90% of us women go through life without knowing the true man. Such men are only myths they teach us as kids, the type that appears only in fairy tales and life's no fairy tale! Pauses the age old voices.
So the majority of us don't wait fr the right person, after all they do not exist! We settle with the first decent one from the lot who seems bearable. And that's that!
If I had a chance I would tell my 20 year old self... Listen Megha, there's gonna be someone who would melt your heart with the way he looks at you.
Someone who will give you the butterflies without asking for it. There'll be that special person whom you won't have to explain to. The one who will think the same as you and you'll be surprised that you didn't have to justify your actions!
That someone who gives importance to the companionship you share, the one who counts not the sex, not the looks, but just the moments you are together, cos after all that's what matters the most.
So all you beautiful ladies out there.... the next time you meet a probable partner material and you're finding it difficult to think amid all the adrenaline.. ask yourself these:
After life sets, when all that matters have been settled, when there's nothing left to be done but just live.... At a moment like that, can you imagine living with this guy in front of you?
To just wake up with each other and have nothing to keep you busy than each other. To be in a world where no one else exists but just you and him. Will you be happy there? Will you be mad ? Or just madly in love?? .....
Be sincere to yourself and the fairy tale will find you... All the best my darling Ladies... ! :)
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© Megha Kuruvilla @ Life's Vibes , [2009 onwards]. Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material without express and written permission from this blog’s author and/or owner is strictly prohibited. Excerpts and links may be used, provided that full and clear credit is given to [Megha Kuruvilla] and [Life's Vibes] with appropriate and specific direction to the original content.
Every eye, every heart is unique with their unique choices, isn't it??
Yes?? Or maybe no???
The choices we make might be based on different factors. Love, life, romance, money, companionship... On goes the list. But at the end of the day what do women want?? What is it that makes them so complicated that no one seems to understand the age old question?!
So here's what it takes.....
Every women, fair or dark, tall or short, urban or rural , young or old.... Each and every women needs 'a Man'.
'The Man' who sees the lady in her. Not the wife, not the gf, not the mum of his kids, but the beautiful, elegant, yet childishly shy romantic in her.
'The Man' who adores her not for the things she does for him, but for the way she is to the world.
'The Man' who sees her as a companion, the one he can talk his mind to. The one he is not scared to hear the truth from.
'The Man' who lets her respect him. Never letting her down. Never disrespecting her choices.
Around 90% of us women go through life without knowing the true man. Such men are only myths they teach us as kids, the type that appears only in fairy tales and life's no fairy tale! Pauses the age old voices.
So the majority of us don't wait fr the right person, after all they do not exist! We settle with the first decent one from the lot who seems bearable. And that's that!
If I had a chance I would tell my 20 year old self... Listen Megha, there's gonna be someone who would melt your heart with the way he looks at you.Someone who will give you the butterflies without asking for it. There'll be that special person whom you won't have to explain to. The one who will think the same as you and you'll be surprised that you didn't have to justify your actions!
That someone who gives importance to the companionship you share, the one who counts not the sex, not the looks, but just the moments you are together, cos after all that's what matters the most.
So all you beautiful ladies out there.... the next time you meet a probable partner material and you're finding it difficult to think amid all the adrenaline.. ask yourself these:
After life sets, when all that matters have been settled, when there's nothing left to be done but just live.... At a moment like that, can you imagine living with this guy in front of you?
To just wake up with each other and have nothing to keep you busy than each other. To be in a world where no one else exists but just you and him. Will you be happy there? Will you be mad ? Or just madly in love?? .....
Be sincere to yourself and the fairy tale will find you... All the best my darling Ladies... ! :)
© Megha Kuruvilla @ Life's Vibes , [2009 onwards]. Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material without express and written permission from this blog’s author and/or owner is strictly prohibited. Excerpts and links may be used, provided that full and clear credit is given to [Megha Kuruvilla] and [Life's Vibes] with appropriate and specific direction to the original content.
Very true!! You ve captured the right essence of searching a real life partner. I'll remember this the next time I meet a guy:)
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Very nice and interesting post, thank you for sharing.
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ReplyDeleteI stumbled across this article. Well done.
ReplyDeleteI just met someone and the feelings you describe here are a match for what I feel for her. I'll add to what you wrote, putting it out there that counting the sex and looks also matter. Not from a shallow perspective, but when love is true, our heart will make our partner's exterior to be the most beautiful one we ever gazed upon. Every touch so tentelizing, that every sexual act seems to be accompanied with a free pass to heaven, while angels are signing our story.
You appear to be in the right direction, keep your heart open.