Like SaNd in HanD

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Relationships........ are like sand held in your hand.

Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is.
The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled.

Relationships are similar.

Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact.
But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.

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  1. SaiJune 23, 2011 at 1:44 PM

    i came here while surfin. but hold too tightly too possessively and the relationship slips away and is lost. these lines were nice. keep writin. if u got free time keep visitin to my blog too :-)

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